"This is more a lifestyle for me. If it was publicly acceptable, I would wear just corsets, thigh high stockings, garters, and heels (or some other fetish type clothing) every day. However, due to the fact that there is a level of formality to society, we can't very well do that. So, we are limited to the home. That means I appear as your typical conservative and fairly normal woman in the public eye. Within the comforts of my home, it's normal to find me walking around in corset and heels.

Most of the people that I have come across have limitations that don't work for me. Males never last as long as females because of this, but I'm always willing to try. Many times, people can't handle me. I am not trying to be egotistical or pig-headed here. I am just trying to explain how serious I take this lifestyle. It's not for the shy or timid.

I have been a Domme, or Mistress, for almost 10 years. My first complete slave did not come into my life until this year. Yes, I have been the submissive, or slave, on many occasions. It is much more difficult to don the title of Mistress or Master than one would think. However, it is something that cannot be learned. You are either born dominant, or you aren't. Lead or be led. The interesting thing is that any dominant person can slip into the submissive role, which I can do with the right amount of force.

What is the draw for me? I suppose it is the same thing that draws men to fast, muscle cars or women to the mall. People that make Fetishism a lifestyle are those who are, quite simply, addicted to it. It's no different than any other addicting aspect in life (barring things like alcohol, drugs, etc.). It can be as safe or as dangerous as you choose it to be. It's a primal part of the human psyche and something that I openly embrace. As my time as a Domme lengthens, I find it increasingly difficult to keep the boundaries between public and private intact. A professional Domme/Mistress, is a woman who can turn heads in a room full of strangers even without wearing revealing clothing or fetish pieces. You'll know her when you see her. She rules the roost. Her friends follow her footsteps and every guy around her wishes they could, for that one moment, experience her on a level more than casual friendship. I am that sort of person."